Tag: Resiliency
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Why Not Me?
Everybody asks ‘why me?’… embrace the power of asking, ‘why not me?’ This is a story about four people named Everybody, Somebody, Anybody and Nobody. There was an important job to be done and Everybody was sure that Somebody would do it. Anybody could have done it, but Nobody did it. Somebody got angry about…
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Fit to Lead?
Strong military physical fitness scores are not a reason to skip unit fitness training; they drive a responsibility to lead it. “I scored an ‘Excellent’ on my Air Force Fitness Assessment; why do I still have to attend my unit’s group physical training sessions?” Anyone who has served in the military has likely heard something…
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Reflections on Afghanistan
Afghanistan defined my entire military experience by either lingering in the background or thrust violently into my foreground. What’s next? As twenty years of conflict in Afghanistan draw to a close for the United States, I’m driven to reflect on the wins and the losses. I struggle with mixed emotions on this. On the one…
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The Meaning of “Diversity & Inclusion”
The power of humbly listening to alternative voices and having your blind spots challenged. It’s official! After decades of female Airmen suffering from migraines, hair loss, ill-fitting protective headgear, and white beauty standards under the guise of professionalism, the U.S. Air Force published an update to its venerable Air Force Instruction 36-2903 – Dress and…
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Practicing Gratitude
When the tough times hit, being grateful for what you have can empower you and help pull you through. This concept is from the U.S. Air Force’s “Comprehensive Airmen Fitness” resiliency program. My examples and uses are my own. On Monday, 26 October, we experienced a crazy ice storm in our area in Oklahoma. Between…
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Who’s in Your Wolf Pack?
You become who you run with; find the pack that challenges you to grow. When I was a teenager, I had zero desire to try any drugs. That desire wasn’t shared by many of my friends, and a good portion of high school was spent with friends who would regularly smoke weed. I didn’t have…
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The Power of Empathy
“Before you disagree with somebody, walk a mile in their shoes…” “… and if you still disagree with them, you’re a mile away. And you have their shoes.” Countless divisions have plagued our country since its roots. Indigenous versus colonists. Black versus white. Male versus female. Republican versus Democrat. Pro-choice versus pro-life. Conservative versus liberal.…
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Don’t Sneak Out of Going Away
Retirement ceremonies, going-away celebrations, hails-and-farewells aren’t about you! No matter what organization you’ve been a part of, somebody has left it. They’re relocating, going to another organization, retiring, or maybe just transferring to a different work center at the same location. Now it’s your turn and it’s time to rehash the same tired script that…
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Excellence in All We Do
It’s an aspiration, not an end state. Like all services, the U.S. Air Force has a list of core values that help guide each Airman in the absence of formal guidance. The belief holds that if you follow all of these, you’ll do the right thing, even if you do it the wrong way. They’re…
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What’s Your Why?
If you don’t know why you’re doing something, your effort is in vain. This article incorporates concepts from the U.S. Air Force’s “Comprehensive Airmen Fitness” resiliency program. My examples and uses are my own. Without a doubt, one of my favorite motivational speakers is Dr. Eric Thomas. It is impossible not to get completely pumped about whatever you’re trying to accomplish in life…
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Only a Few Lives Left
An inspiring story of resilience from Master Sergeant Jake “TJ” Miller MSgt Jake “TJ” Miller Recently, a great friend of mine, Master Sergeant Jake “TJ” Miller, asked for some help editing a short autobiographical work focused on some of his very personal resiliency challenges. I met Jake back in 2014 while on deployment and was…
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Stop Monetizing Joy!
Too many of us try to convert our hobbies to a side-hustle, and it’s destroying our creativity. It seems like every few days I’m asked, “So what are you doing to get your blog to make money?” It does personally cost me in hosting fees, domain name registrations, and if I think an idea is…